The middle age stage is a critical stage in a woman’s life that is afflicted by many changes, crises and storms. Therefore, early preparation and rehabilitation for her is the perfect key to avoiding her symptoms and shocks, which causes a real change in the life of women during this critical stage and is reflected in the well-being of family life. From here, the current research aimed mainly at studying the effectiveness of a counseling program to enhance self-competence in its axes (cognitive - health - administrative) and its relationship to family well-being in its axes (enriching family relations - psychological fitness - financial well-being). The counseling program was planned, implemented and evaluated according to the needs of wives entering the middle age stage to enhance their self-worth, which will reflect positively on family well-being as an entry point to a decent life. And measuring the impact of the counseling program prepared after its application in enhancing and improving the level of awareness of the wives' self-worth. The sample was chosen in a purposive manner, provided that the wives are from the coming middle-aged stage and from different socio-economic levels in Sharkia Governorate. Data were collected through the application of research tools (general data questionnaire, self-awareness questionnaire, family well-being questionnaire, counseling program). The tools were applied to the main research sample (388) middle-aged bridesmaids in the cities of Zagazig, the centers of Husseiniya and Minya al-Qamh, and some of their villages. The experimental research sample was chosen and consisted of (30) wives, and the extension program was applied in the village of Al-Samakin, west of the training hall in the technological center in the village, in order to achieve the minimum quartile of the places for applying the basic sample. The research followed the analytical descriptive approach and the experimental approach. Spss21.: The results revealed: There is a positive, statistically significant correlation at 0.001 between the level of awareness of self-worth and family well-being in middle-aged wives. It was found that the variable of monthly income and the axis of health aptitudes are the most significant in explaining the variation in the level of family well-being. And there are statistically significant differences between the mean scores of the experimental research sample of wives coming to the middle age stage in awareness of self-competences (with their axes) before and after applying the counseling program in favor of the post application, as well as a large effect size. The study recommended: The establishment of the National Council for Women, in cooperation with the Ministry of Health, declared centers for self-rehabilitation of women with the aim of supporting them cognitively, healthily and psychologically, and qualifying them for sufficient qualification to prepare for their different age stages. With her, in addition to the National Council adopting the electronic publication of the sessions of the counseling program prepared through its official pages and through awareness-raising seminars, which contributes to educating the largest number of women about the self-competences that qualify them to adapt to the middle-aged stage, reduce its conversations and avoid its crises that threaten the family entity. Key Words: self-awareness, family well-being, midlife.