Family relations remain the concern of many researchers in the impact of social media, and attention continues to this effect due to the seriousness of the problems that the family is exposed to because of this new technological entrant, it is the beginning of differences for those who are allowed to take possession of their time, especially within the home, where they occupy a family member or Both of them are from the other and the children are separated from their families, which deprives each party of dialogue with the other and deprives the rest of the family of the family of interaction and a sense of normal family atmosphere. In order to seek to confront these problems, each party turns to a means of communicating with others who may find their misfortune or discover in them or delude - from his point of view - what he does not discover within his family, and some studies have concluded that social media, including Facebook, has become one of the reasons that lead to divorce And the separation between the spouses, including a study conducted by the American Academy of Divorce Lawyers, and another published by The Independent, quoting the Italian Lawyers Association, as Facebook is the first accused of high levels of global divorce, and statistics also indicate that 20% of divorces in the United States of America indicate that it is the reason Proceeded to divorce cases there (14). Then comes the application of "WhatsApp", according to the Lawyers Association, it caused 40% of divorces in Italy, because of the ease of contact between men and women and the high rates of betrayal of spouses. The president of the association, "Gian Ituri," says that the beginning of treason is usually through short text messages via "Facebook", then the relationship develops to "WhatsApp", where the two parties exchange pictures, after which the betrayal occurs. In the same context, the British "line on Divorce" website mentioned that "Facebook" alone caused a third of divorce cases in Britain in 2011. The lack of communication between the spouses is the third reason for divorce in the United States after treason and money is among the 10 reasons for divorce ( 15), it has become easy to communicate with men or women without barriers and without prior knowledge only across the virtual world through means and methods of social communication, which encouraged the emergence of strange ideas and behavior on our Eastern Arab world and our Islamic customs and traditions, and this virtual world has become a substitute for the world Realistic and what was forbidden and forbidden It is not desirable in fact it became available in this world, and the features of family problems began to appear either between the spouses or for the children, so what is easier to get acquainted and talk with people who are real or borrowed on social networking sites and establish abnormal relationships through this site or that, and usually does not look The wife and husband in our Arab societies, to the other party’s talks on social media, except from the perspective of suspicion, fear, and fear from the other side and what it seeks, and thus remains in a state of rejection of these relationships and the first stage of problems begins to stop this communication and threatening divorce if it continues, w The last stage of divorce did not come in the case of not submitting to the requests of the husband or wife, and this happened with many of the cases that newspapers read to us recently, until some thought that it had become apparent, but this matter requires a lot of depth in studies on accurate scientific foundations to validate The hypothesis of the impact of social media on the family and its members, so the study from an accurate scientific perspective tries to verify what is raised about the nature of the impact that the use of social media can cause between and within family members, whether in achieving interaction between them through those means or lack of interest among its members, and if she was The study revealed many important results in the nature of the relationship of the use of social media by members of the family, in which it indicated the inability of family members to dispense with the use of these methods, and that it led - i.e. means - to many differences and problems between family members such as quarreling loudly, Or one of the sons was beaten, or one of the parents left home or deprived of the use of the mobile phone and other disputes, and social media was one of the most important reasons for which the study was neglected and the children got poor rates or was because of the long periods in which they sit Each party is in front of its phone, using these means or as a result of avoiding dialogue between family members and isolation of each individual with his condition and other reasons that called for such problems, and in fact we cannot hide that the use of social media has become one of the most important habits and behaviors of many family members Arabic, and if we cannot control and control this behavior, it may exacerbate family problems, and accordingly, these methods must be dealt with according to educational methods prepared in a scientifically accurate manner by specialists away from the loose theorizing that is not feasible, so that the beginning of the family that has a great burden in it Guidance and guidance Raising its members according to moral values ​​stemming from our customs, traditions and religion, and then continuing in the school and fulfilling its role through educational curricula prepared in a scientifically accurate manner that supports the role of the family and raises our values ​​and contributes to reducing this phenomenon, and this is confirmed by specialists in the field of education and media on the need for attention of educational institutions With the aspects surrounding the student, and that the curriculum includes how to deal with the media, analyze and understand the media message, and that young people are properly prepared to understand the media culture that surrounds them in what is called "media education" which is essentially the protection and preservation of students M of the negative effects resulting from their dealing with the media in general and social media in particular (40), despite this controversy and discussion about the relationship between the use of social media means and methods on the family and its members, but